Frequently Asked Questions

What is couples intimacy coaching?

Couples intimacy coaching is an intention process of establishing a foundational framework around sex and then dialoguing on concerns, techniques, and exercises to help improve your sex life. The formate is very similar to talk therapy, although I make no claim to be a licensed clinical therapist. The coaching that I offer is more geared toward empowering solutions and action plans. I cannot stress enough that I try to create an environment where you and your partner will feel comfortable discussing anything related to sex. It truly is a judgement-free environment. Every part of you is welcome at Red Loveseat, even the parts you don’t find appealing.

What are some examples of topics that we could discuss?

  • Everything starts with the foundational framework around sex

  • Spicing up the bedroom/addressing sexual boredom

  • Sexual repression that resulted from religion

  • Identifying turn ons and foreplay

  • Exploring fantasies

  • Orgasm difficulties

  • Kink and fetishes

  • Decreasing sexual shame while increasing openness and curiosity

  • Compulsive Sexual Behaviors

  • Masturbation and using toys

  • Touch, sensation, and connecting to the body

  • Or any other sexual conversations in which you don’t feel comfortable discussing with others in your life. Literally…let’s talk about anything from LGBTQ+ to non-monogamy. I promise you that nothing is off limits.

What will the first session look like?

As much as we might want to dive into some great topics in our first session, I have found that the best place to start the conversation is on the foundational framework for great sex. Trust me, its worth it!

Confidentiality

100% confidential!!!!! This is a place where you can feel seen and safe, while knowing the conversation does not leave the room!

Pricing

I charge $45 per session, which applies the same for in-person or a video session. I do not offer a sliding scale nor do I take insurance. Couples intimacy coaching is an investment that has a powerful return in your life. I hope that you see it more as a lifetime of rewards rather than a temporary monetary cost.

Diversity

I want to serve everyone and create a safe and confidential space for great conversations on sexuality. Although I am not a licensed therapist, I follow the same code of ethics of the American Counseling Association in reference to diversity by promoting non-discrimination by race, creed, color, ethnicity, national origin, religion, sex, sexual orientation, gender expression, age, height, weight, physical or mental ability, veteran status, military obligations, and marital status.

In-person sessions or video sessions?

I offer in-person sessions at my office in Greenville, SC (198 Roper Mountain Road Extension Suite B Greenville, SC 29615). It’s there that you will be able to sit on the special “red loveseat” for each session. Video sessions are a wonderful alternative that does not limit you to travel to the Greenville area.